The Ascended path to true love

The forgotten true path to love

For many love is so strongly tied to the human experience that it is a necessity at some point. When we reach those moments, all else may seem bleak. We become obsessed, desperate, and many times settle for something less than ideal.

Now when I say ideal, I don’t mean having the perfect package with perfect personality, the income, the body, or whatever else you identify as the “perfect” partner. Why? Simple, because perfect doesn’t exist! Sometimes we meet a great match that eventually can seem perfect. Sometimes that person, or yourself are not completely harmonized at the time of meeting. This is because you are focused on the ideal situation, and you miss out on the best situations.

Love is energy! Quantum science has proven that.

When you learn how to harmonize with the frequency of love, wonderful things can happen. You just have to let it happen, and be open to the true power of universal synchronicities.

The Spiritual Heart -- is in a way a little like a smart phone, invisibly connecting us to a large network of information. It is through an unseen energy that the heart emits that humans are profoundly connected to all living things. The energy of the heart literally links us to each other.

Here’s my personal story, and outcome on love. I share it so that it gives you a perspective to the keys to your happiness.

I once was engaged to someone I manifested forcefully out of desperation. Six months before our wedding, he decided to run off with someone who he was physically obsessed about. Turns out that the obsession lasted two weeks, but by then … I could see the true content of the individual I had imagined a future with.

At the time, I was completely destroyed. Depression, anxiety, confusion, and despair all took hold of me. I went down a dark abyss of personal pain. In this pain, I began manifesting another partner. Within weeks, he came into my life through synchronicities. I had known this person all through college, though he never caught my eye until I was in such deep despair. He was kind, caring, and shared my passion for art.

We quickly began spending time together, creating, adventuring, and well - all the stuff young couples do. I soon married him, not because I was desperate, but because he struck the right cords at the time, or so I thought.

After the honey moon phase, I realized with each passing day that my husband wasn’t really who I thought I married. His true colors began to show, and eventually chaos ensued. It ended HORRIBLY, more than before. I had lost myself, became homeless, and at the time ... the people closest to me. This lead me to a forced 6 month sabbatical alone.

I thought to myself, “Why me?” It was through meditation that I was able to identify a few major reasons! That is when I realized that I had myself to blame.

The energies you put out, attract like energies.

1.     I had not fully recovered from losing someone I thought would be a life partner. That level of chaotic energy brought to me my husband who had just stepped out of a long-term relationship himself. We gravitated towards each other like magnets!

2.     I didn’t, at the time, have love for myself, or clarity of what I truly wanted. I just didn’t want to be alone. The mass population doesn’t like being alone. Another energy my ex-husband was emanating. Misery loves company.

Since neither of us really concerned ourselves with the content of the person other than,” I want him to be attractive, and love art.” That’s exactly what we got, but our compatibility ended there. It was an abusive relationship.

3.      As a shaman, I have learned to grow accustomed to the monk lifestyle. During my sabbatical, I decided to never invest myself in anyone else ever again. I was here to help others heal, that was my mission.  I would rather be alone than in another relationship that physically and emotionally destroyed me. I communicated this truth, verbatim, to the universe one night amongst great darkness. “Universe, I never want to be in another romantic relationship again. Unless, the next person I meet in regards to romance truly understands me for the person I am, and my divine life mission. I don’t care what they look like. I don’t care anything other than that person being pure of heart, a great soul, and respectful of my identity. I would rather have an amazing soul during my final days, then someone who wants brought me the vanity of sexual and mental satisfaction. I only except a spiritual partner, fore-the skin is fleeting, and a true soul of light last forever.”

It was then that I let go of all my expectations of love, and I stopped looking for it all together.

About a month, or so after returning from my sabbatical, I met someone who I had no interest in other than friends online. Someone to talk to, since I was looking for that at the time.

Soon we ended up physically meeting for a drink since I was new in town, and he lived about two streets away.

Months passed, and one day we both acknowledged that we were not spending time with anyone else, but each other.

He was a very popular person, and so was I .. Yet he stole all of my time, and I his. Without me knowing, my friend was my main interest. I fell in love with my best friend. Someone who I would never have guessed to be the harmonizing soul that would embrace me for who I authentically was. Who also felt the same way about me, “just friends” when we met.

Had either of us been looking with the typical goggles people use to find a romantic relationship… We would have never found true love.

Neither of us found the other attractive when we met, yet today it’s a completely different story.

We share such a strong bond due to the fact that we fell in love with the soul, that we share telepathy, and other metaphysical connections that we have never experienced with anyone else.

As time went on, my personal discovery of my authentic self lead me to the understanding that traditional relationship models are not my particular fit. I didn’t want an open relationship, I needed a monogamous polyamorous relationship. It was the only way to continue pursuing my authentic self. Due to the level of connection, and understanding we had for one another… He accepted my position, and supported me.

It was with these same techniques I used to find this partner, that led me to another. The same techniques of pure manifestation, and the law of attraction.

Today, I have two beautiful people by my side, supporting everything I do. In return I do the same. I go even further, using my shamanic mastery to improve their lives in any way that I can!

Years later, the concept of having true love in my life was a reality. Something I had given up on when I had lost all faith!

So how do you do it?

1. Love yourself

Do whatever you need to do love authentically yourself. It is only when you reach harmony with yourself that you can reach harmony with another.

2. Know the content of the soul you want to spend your life with.

True love doesn’t lie in the physical aspects of our reality, but in the metaphysical. All else follows shortly after.

3. Go with the flow, and be open!

Had we not been open, I would have never met either of my partners. Had we tried hunting for love, we would have ruled each other out as a possibility, and who knows we may have not even come into contact to begin with.

4. Be grateful for what you have!

This will bring you happiness while you wait, and when your manifestation brings you a harmonize soul. By beginning to be grateful now you will start drawing in your match, and by being grateful after meeting them you will maintain a healthy relationship.

5. Enjoy the content of your relationship, and forget about time.

Don’t sweat the little stuff!

6. Let them be who they are if you want them to let you be who you are.

Respect each other, and grow together. Know when you need to give them space, and when to give them love.

7. Meditate together, and love them like it was the last time you were going to see them.

This is my Valentine’s Day gift to you:

The ascended path to true love.

I’ve given this manifestation technique to many of my students, and the results have proven to be identical to my personal journey, over and over.

I send you love, and light.

Master Antojai

Carrasquillo, A. (2018). Antojai Shamanic Wellness

Copyright © 2018 Antojai Shamanic Wellness, All rights reserved.

Photo by David Núñez

Develop your Intuition

Intuitive Training 

It’s hard to connect to your intuition. Especially, with so many different articles telling you how to start using it. The truth is that there is no one way to connect to your intuition, but there are some theories that are more effective than others. I am going to share the way my grandmother (a master medium) showed me how to connect at age 7, and other techniques that I learned from the various shaman masters I have trained under. I will also be introducing my own techniques for further development.

What is your intuition?

It’s the feeling that tells you not trust someone who later turns out to be a bad influence. It’s the gut feeling you get when you make a decision that is in true alignment with your authentic-self. It’s the voice in the back of your head that tells you which way to go. Your intuition is directly connected to your higher-self. Your higher-self is always trying to connect with you for the better. It’s up to you to listen, trust it, and know what is personal thought from your intuition.

How to connect:

 1. Be true to yourself 

Start paying attention to how you really feel about things. Ignore the input you may feel from other people. The best way to connect to your intuition is to truly follow your hearts desire. Now, this does not give you a freebie to be a douche, or inconsiderate of others. 

The theory: is listening to yourself first. This will allow you to detach from what you feel like you are obligated to do for the sake of others. You can’t always do this in wise judgement, but you will notice you sacrifice yourself a lot to make others happy. In effect, you ignore your intuition, thus disconnecting from your higher self. This is the best way to start fighting those questions that make you wonder what actually came from your intuition. When you follow your intuition, you feel a slight energy change, just pay attention. Your sacral chakra located at your naval may spin harder, or you may feel that the anxiety of the question goes away when you decide to do a particular action. With time you should figure it out. Do this for 30days.

2. Don't restrict yourself to a mold.

Don’t feel limited to what you think your intuition should be like. Sometimes intuitive people will try to tell you that you have to experience a certain something to know you’re connected. Wrong.

For instance, my intuition is a voice I hear that tells me, “Hey Antojai, this is a good idea.” This is called clairaudience. For some of my students, they just know something to be true. They don’t know exactly how, but to go against this feeling of certainty means error. This is called clairsentience.

To best connect with your intuition, you just have to test it, allow it to flourish however it wants to, and trust it like you would trust a compass.

3. Clear the Brow chakra

When you meditate, I want you to focus on your third-eye located just above the center of your eyebrows. Focus on a beautiful indigo going in through your nose, and filling in the third-eye. At the same time, I want you to imagine any blockages leaving your third eye as a grey-black smoke. This exercise helps clear blockages in your third-eye.

•Chakra Science says that the

ThirdEye + Sacral Chakra together = your intuition.

•Your intuition + Root chakra = a response!

So, focusing on these chakras, and clearing them is your goal.  Everything you do with chakra, you will notice, is a formula, a science. The Third-eye is linked to the unspoken knowledge of the world. It’s a frequency-dimension filled with the thoughts we don’t share, the emotions we run from, and all information ever conceived on earth at this present time. It’s basically a secret radio channel you can learn to tune into. Though, you can’t do that unless you can learn how to control your emotions to some degree, located in the Sacral chakra. The Sacral chakra, if not managed, will allow interruptions caused by the logical mind which is connected to the Solar Plexus Chakra. You don’t want the Solar plexus to force you to over think, causing confusion on what actually is your intuition. 

🦅🦆Think about animals. We all know they are intuitive. We have seen birds leave an area before a natural disaster. How do bears know when to wake? How does a Falcon catch prey with such precision? Simple, Intuition combined with physical instinct. You need to become one with your intuition by forcing yourself not to question it. Animals don’t question their instincts, they just roll with them. You should too!

4. Play Intuitive games!

🔮📿Try this with someone else: on pieces of paper write about 5 numbers or letters (easy ones). Have your friend pull a paper while you try to guess what is on the paper. Do this for 5-10 minutes every other day. You will begin to notice that your intuition is usually the first instinct you get. "It's A." Now if you think too much about it, "It's A, no wait, C...maybe A..."

Pay attention to how many times your intuition got the game-test write until you feel confident to use your intuition. 

🤹🏽‍♂️Another game I love to play is the lost traveler game! Walk around a safe town, in areas you normally don't walk through. I like to walk and walk until I'm completely lost in a directional sense. From there, I let my intuition guide me home, or to the coffee shop I'm looking for. At first this game may feel like a waste of time because you may get lost the first few times. Try it on days where you have no responsibilities. In time you will start to see a difference.

💎💗The last game I recommend is the Compass game. I learned this one from Native American Shamans. A lot of us are lost without a phone, or technology! Find what direction you are facing right this second! You can use your phone, relax. If you lose track, just reference your phone and pick up where you left off. After you find the answer, turn off your phone and go on for as long as possible tracking which direction you are facing. This will connect you to the unspoken knowledge of the Earth. The Earth is our final source if intuitive knowledge! She's always talking to us, we just need to learn how to listen. This has got to be the most powerful exercise you can do for your intuition. It enhances all of your chakras as well.

As you connect to your intuition, you'll begin to notice that new techniques for developing your intuition will start presenting themselves to you. This could be in the form of a book, advice you hear from someone, or just a random thought that's so strong you couldn't ignore it. Keep an eye out for these synchronicity's. Now the universe is starting to talk to you directly.

Feel free to let me know how these tips turned out for you, and don't be afraid to email me for more tips at antojai@antojai.us

Master Antojai

Carrasquillo, A. (2017). Antojai Shamanic Wellness

Copyright © 2017 Antojai Shamanic Wellness, All rights reserved.

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